Friday, June 27th, 2025 06:58 pm

A rectangular entrance building with battlements and a large wooden door, next to a taller building - also with battlements and a rounded corner.  All in reddish stone.
Powis Castle
Monday, June 23rd, 2025 08:18 am
Fandom Fifty 2025: Post #18




Really don't want to think about how the seller's agent on my new house is so so so bad at their jobs that the closing of the sale has been held up indefinitely.

So instead i'm thinking about the comeback of this five year old heartbreak anthem. which is nuts since musically we live in such weird wild times in terms of what manages to chart globally and across the pop charts. we only listen to old songs, nothing new has broken through with any staying power for months! all of us seem still stuck on last years kendrick and sabrina. the music of last year that i thought signaled a change in the industry turned out to just be a flash in the pan. hell, brat summer came and went but all it amounted to was tiktok deciding to go rifling through charli xcx's back catalogue to find this banger on her How I'm Feeling Now album. and it IS a banger. its bridge has easily turned into the saddest fandom calling card of romantic grief and limerance to be cut into edits of characters from across franchises. and its such good fandom fuel. the layered, its glitchy, its dreamy, its a film's ending credits in your ear. in the four minutes it plays, you are somewhere else, somewhen else. its so bitterly sweet and soft, the way it feels like a realization. part of you knew. but part of you hoped. and thats an animal that never really dies inside you, no matter how hard it kicks and scratches and yelps and starves in the basement of your heart.

me and the rest of the girlies on tiktok are truly out of our heads having self induced breakdowns for months. and its insane but i swear the right edit has the power to make me literally weep. (and poorly done edits have the power to make me burst out laughing. because what do you mean you people STILL think about teen wolf? let alone still think stiles and derek were true loves jesus fucking christ stop embarrassing yourselves.)

but that aside. SHOUT OUT TO THE PAIRINGS THAT HAVE DESTROYED ME WITH THEIR TIKTOK PARTY4U EDITS. in no particular order:
  • Jackie & Shauna (Yellowjackets)
  • Art & Patrick (Challengers)
  • Carmy & Syd (The Bear)
  • Fezco & Lexi (Euphoria)
  • Fleabag & Priest (Fleabag)
  • Derek & Meredith (Greys, somehow, in the year of our lord 2025)
  • Louis & Lestat (Interview with the Vampire)
  • Effy & Freddie (Skins)
  • Logan & Veronica (Veronica Mars)
  • Bonnie & Damon (TVD)

Thursday, June 26th, 2025 05:33 pm
Our Inca Trail holiday actually started with three days spent in and around Cusco, the ancient Inca Capital. Our first day started with a walking tour of Cusco. Because of the various mix-ups with permits, this was with a guide called Arturo who should have been our guide for the whole trip, but wasn't.

Photos under the Cut )
Thursday, June 26th, 2025 06:57 am

Community Thursday challenge: every Thursday, try to make an effort to engage with a community on Dreamwidth, whether that's posting, commenting, promoting, etc.


Over the last week...

Second-to-last vigilantes chit-chat on [community profile] bnha_fans, as the current season approaches the end!

Commented on [community profile] common_nature, [community profile] booknook, [community profile] anime_manga, [community profile] ffxv.

Promoted [community profile] finalfantasy in a comment.

Signal boosts:

  • [community profile] everykindofcraft, a new comm for all kinds of craft and already decently active!
  • Continuing to enjoy the weekly stories on [community profile] senzenwomen, "Histories of women in and around Japan, 1868-1945"
  • Bunch of fanweeks, zine and other events for Final Fantasy XV being promoted on [community profile] ffxv :)
  • Via [personal profile] squidgestatus, SquidgeWorld is having their summer fundraiser!
Wednesday, June 25th, 2025 06:55 pm
Then Wilbert showed us around Machu Picchu.

Photos )

The story of Machu Picchu, as Wilbert told it to us, was that it was under construction as a district capital when the Spanish arrived. Intimating that things were going badly with the Spanish, the Inca moved 700 people and all their gold from their capital of Cusco along the Inca trail to Machu Picchu, destroying the roads behind them with landslides. They remained there for 80 years but were aware that the Spanish, in search of the gold, were getting closer aided by a generation of half-Peruvian, half-Spanish collaborators. After 80 years, therefore, they hid the gold in the surrounding hills and some moved back towards Cusco where they were captured by the Spanish and others moved east into the Amazon where their descendents were briefly encountered by archeologists in the 1970s. The Spanish eventually reached Machu Picchu but found no gold. This story does not appear anywhere else I've looked (but, as noted, information at the level of detail I'm accustomed to for historic sites is much harder to find for Machu Picchu), but it wouldn't surprise me if it isn't the legend as told among the local Andean people.
Tuesday, June 24th, 2025 10:33 pm

I've now read all the finalist novels for the 2025 Hugo Awards. The trouble is, I read some of these books when they first came out last year. Still. I'm happy to share my impressions if people are interested.

Poll #33287 cho's Hugo Novels 2025 Write-Up
Open to: Registered Users, detailed results viewable to: All, participants: 14


Which of the 2025 finalists are you most interested in having me write up?

View Answers

Alien Clay by Adrian Tchaikovsky
8 (57.1%)

The Ministry of Time by Kaliane Bradley
3 (21.4%)

Service Model by Adrian Tchaikovsky
3 (21.4%)

Someone You Can Build a Nest In by John Wiswell
5 (35.7%)

A Sorceress Comes to Call by T. Kingfisher
4 (28.6%)

The Tainted Cup by Robert Jackson Bennett
4 (28.6%)

Tuesday, June 24th, 2025 06:32 pm
Life has been A Lot this year due to work things, home things, health things, and ::gestures vaguely at the world:: things.

But sometimes it can also be absolutely lovely. A few days ago I ordered some CDs--including one from one of my all time favorite groups--from the website of a trad musician and left a quick comment in the delivery instructions box to the effect of Hey, if you ever have you guys's fourth CD back in stock, please let me know.

I hit "purchase", watched the transaction go through, and went about my evening.

A day later, an email with the musician's name in the "sender" field popped up in my inbox during an extremely trying afternoon. Surely not, I thought.

But guys. Guys. It was. It was a real, an-actual-human-sat-down-and-wrote-this email from the actual musician expressing surprise and pleasure that someone had bought these CDs, giving some updates about the group (including that one of the members had passed away two years ago--a fact I'd already known, but hearing it directly from this person who was his bandmate and friend...😭😭), and musing about the music the group had made together. The email contained both proper punctuation and grammar and proper emoji usage. The email also contained a proof of shipping photo of the packaged CDs in which the slightly messy interior of this person's car is visible. The whole thing is about as far away from social media influencer presentation as you can get and I cannot express how delightful I find this.

I replied saying that I'd been really sad to hear of the group member's passing and how much I absolutely loved their albums. He sent a second email thanking me again, adding that the group had never felt successful (PS: 😱) and that it really meant something whenever someone said they enjoyed their music.

And, just. It would be hard to overstate how 🀩🀩🀩 I am over this entire situation. I have been listening to this group for 27 years and this individual's other projects for almost as long. This group has had a HUGE influence on my own playing, stylistically and in terms of repertoire. Two of their CDs are in my in my top 25 most-played albums of all time. On top of that, this person is widely regarded as one of the best players of his instrument, in this genre, in the world. And it turns he is also a genuine and down-to-earth human being. I would never in a million years have imagined I would have any kind of interaction with him, let alone that he would act like I'm the one doing him a favor by appreciating the art he has helped put out into the world.

Seriously. This has made my week and will quite possibly be one of the high points of this entire year. So yeah. Sometimes life is wonderful.

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Tuesday, June 24th, 2025 06:40 pm
Two Doctor Who companion outfits for your delectation and delight! Outfits selected by a mixture of ones I, personally, like; lists on the internet; and a certain random element.


Outfits below the Cut )

Vote for your favourite of these costumes. Use whatever criteria you please - most practical, most outrageously spacey, most of its decade!

Voting will remain open for at least a week, possibly longer!

Costume Bracket Masterlist

Images are a mixture of my own screencaps, screencaps from Lost in Time Graphics, PCJ's Whoniverse Gallery, and random Google searches.
Monday, June 23rd, 2025 02:05 pm
My dojo had a seminar this past weekend, which was lovely. The mat was full but not crowded, the energy was fantastic, got to see a lot of excellent people, and we had more than enough food for everyone to eat after the seminar. (And none pizza, because we know better and are willing to put in a bit more effort to provide better sustenance.) Everyone had a good time! Great practice! Love to take ukemi for sensei's demonstrations, and to get the vibe that she selected me not just for being a yudansha from the host dojo but because she enjoyed throwing me around!

Now we can start looking ahead to next year's seminar, which will be the dojo's 50th anniversary seminar. I think that the goal is for me to take nidan at that seminar, but it's far enough out (May 30th) that there's no particular plans yet.

When I was talking to my mom about this (a sidebar in a conversation mostly about scheduling me flying out to visit my family), she told me that next year would also be the 50th year since women could attend the air force academy.

She was a member of that first class of women.

She is much more excited about my dojo's 50th anniversary.

anyway it is TOO HOT right now and I can't wait for the heat dome currently covering the east coast to break so that it stops being high 90s F/feels like over 100 F. At least the seminar only had normal summer heat! Not this nonsense!

(this nonsense, btw, is hot enough that the building fire alarms went off because of the heat! nothing was actually wrong! it's just Too Hot! isn't that fun!)
Monday, June 23rd, 2025 07:16 pm
Day 4 started at 3:30am in the morning because we were supposed to meet up with the rest of our party at 11am at Machu Picchu which was about 14km away. Most of the rest of the camp got up and set out around the same time for reasons that were less clear to me - maybe the general plan is to get to Machu Picchu before lunch and then spend the afternoon in the city.

Anyway, this meant the first hour of the walk was in the dark going down steep steps with head torches which, once the novelty had worn off, wasn't much fun. We were, presumably, missing some stunning views.

The first ruin of the day was Intipata. This involved a slight diversion off the Inca road itself. According to Wilbert no one had even known it was there until a forest fire about 25 years ago. It's a bit difficult to convey it in photographs, especially as we don't seem to have managed to take any which have any people in for a sense of scale. It was huge, each individual terrace rising above our heads. As far as one can tell, it was a farm.

Photos under the cut )

We then went to Wiñay Wayna which was very similar except that Wilbert insisted it was a laboratory not a farm. We had previously seen another Inca "Laboratory" at Moray but were somewhat confused by the distinction. Laboratories, we were told, were convex while farms were concave. The convex shape caused microclimates at each terrace and you could see different plants were grown on each terrace so it was obvious that the Inca's were experimenting. B. and I felt a frew crucial steps were missing here for something to be called an experiment, as opposed to growing things where they grow best. I was actually getting rather tired at this point so I just sat down and admired the view at Wiñay Wayna, while B. walked down to look at the buildings disturbing some Llamas who were grazing on the terraces.

More Photos )

Wiñay Wayna was right by a campsite of the same name. It was currently out of use following landslides but was, apparently, where people normally spent the final night on the trail. Having left us to explore Wiñay Wayna, Wilbert sat down and chatted to the various guides and porters working at the camp. When we got back he reported that several other parties had gone past, none going to look at the ruins... which again seemed rather odd. I guess for a lot of poeple the Inca Trail is about the walk and then Machu Picchu and not so much about the less well known ruins along the way.

Once past Wiñay Wayna, we left the controlled part of the Inca Trail. At that point I half expected to start seeing day trippers up from Machu Picchu but we never passed anyone going the other way. Wilbert said this was because day trippers were lazy (Wilbert considered many people lazy, including anyone who spoke Spanish in preference to Quechua) but I would have thought quite a lot of people would like to walk along a bit of an Inca road without necessarily doing so for four days and going over Dead Woman's Pass.

Anyway, we continued for another 5 or so km, mostly on the flat but rising slightly until we came to a set of steps that Wilbert cheerfully informed us were called the "Gringo Killer". He had my measure by now and offered to take my sticks while I clambered up.

Evidence under the Cut )

Then we turned a corner and came out at Inti Punku, the Sun Gate, the ceremonial entrance to Machu Picchu. This is where you get your first glimpse of the city.

Photos )

I'll leave Machu Picchu to another post. We were half an hour "late", but Wilbert had a back-up plan which involved showing us around himself and we bumped into the rest of the party during the tour. I was a little frazzled when we got there - a combination I think of the early start, a fairly long walk and the fact my esim wasn't working so I was out of WhatsApp contact from our other guide and so couldn't coordinate meeting up (I eventually managed to contact him via B's phone). But once I'd sent the WhatsApp message and had something to eat, I cheered up enough to enjoy the city.

I felt even better after a bus ride down to Aguas Calientes and a late lunch.

Evidence of Lunch )
Monday, June 23rd, 2025 07:54 am
My goal to actually post on Monday this week is a success! And I don't have too much else to report, other than setting this week's goals, but there are a few things:

  • Exchanges due in May/June ([community profile] hurtcomfortex, [community profile] pickmeupexchange, [community profile] idproquo, [community profile] seasonsofdrabbles, [community profile] diegetic_exchange, [community profile] fandom5k + mystery pinch-hits and treats): Still at 12/12, but I edited the thing I needed to, so now this batch is just waiting for various reveals, assuming I don't pick up any super-late pinch hits. (I think there's only one that I even know the fandoms for at this point, though, so I may be safe?) [community profile] idproquo just revealed last night, but I haven't had a chance to read my fic yet. I'll report back on that next week, which is one of my weekly goals!

  • Exchanges due in July/August ([community profile] caseficexchange, [community profile] nonconex, [community profile] justmarriedexchange + future stuff): I'm still at 0/3. [community profile] justmarriedexchange assignments haven't come out yet, but should over the next couple of days. I'm very excited to see what I get, since there were a lot of really tasty requests. Does it count as gaming if you game for, like, 5 people all at once? 🀣 My goal this week is to get at least 2 more scenes written for my long-fic, and then to solidify my plan for at least one of the other two assignments.

  • Potentials for July/August: [community profile] seasonsofdrabbles for sure, but that's not up for a while. Currently watching nominations for [community profile] raremaleslashex & [community profile] littleblackdressex. You know, I would've sworn that I didn't currently have any LBD characters, but kudos to the person who nominated MCU Loki who is, indeed, a LBD and needs to get fucked by everyone, ASAP. I still doubt I'll be able to sign up for either of these, but pinch hits/treats are a definite possibility. Further out on my radar are [community profile] rarepairexchange & [community profile] iddyiddybangbang. Also, the big hubbub right now is around [community profile] battleshipex which I'm pretty sure I'm not doing. It sounds way too competitive and social for my tastes, but I'm sort of watching it just to see if maybe it's not as opposite my natural inclinations as my initial suspicions.

  • I've got another of my May/June reveals: For the Kill Your Double Flash Exchange, I grabbed a pinch hit for which I wrote One, Two, Infinity: Shen Wei/Zhao Yunlan/every single other incarnation of Zhao Yunlan (yes, literally) for Guardian - priest. As long as there continue to be horny prompts for these two, I will write them! 😝

  • Nothing to see on Femslash Salad Bar...

  • I never get a chance to watch anything over the weekend, so no updates on BNHA, but I'll be starting up again today!

  • I read tons of Noblesse this weekend! I think I have two arcs left? Rai's doing better now, thankfully. He's not allowed to die. Neither is Frankenstein. The two of them must be weird together forever. Is it wrong that I go 'ho-hum' through the battle scenes to get to the scenes where nothing is happening but characters drinking tea? I think not!

  • I realized that I haven't had a hard-copy book to read for a while, which is weird, but I really want to finish Noblesse before I pick something new up. My current inclination is Heaven Official's Blessing by MXTX, which I know nothing about other than that it's long and MXTX wrote it, which is pretty good recommendation for me!

  • Figure skating has been kicking my butt lately. I've been super busy at work, so I have very little brain, and I'm trying to learn a new footwork program and a new synchro program, while not forgetting my current freestyle program in the process. It does not help that my coach has completely changed my footwork program 3 times now. It's just not sticking! Oh well, eventually it has to, right?

  • Also, I finally signed up to [community profile] pinchhitbingo, just to see if I've got bingo. And...I think I do? I will talk more about this next week, once I've had time to analyze my board more carefully.


Goals for this week: 1) Get 2 more scenes written for long-fic. 2) Get my idea into shape for one of my other assignments. 3) Read/comment on [community profile] idproquo. 4) Watch more BNHA. 5) Read more Noblesse! (I want to say 'finish', but practically I don't think I have quite enough time to do that this week. Hopefully next week.)
Sunday, June 22nd, 2025 12:33 pm
Dear writer,

Thanks for creating for me - whether you are my assigned writer or creating a treat, I really appreciate it and can't wait to see what you've made!

General Preferences:

LIKES:

This varies a bit by fandom, so please see those specific sections (for instance, there are some specific fandoms/ships where I prefer darker stuff, and most stuff below is relatively fluffy/lighthearted) but here are some general ideas of what sort of fic I enjoy.

I love a lot of the fandom cliches, particularly Only One Bed, fake dating turned real, friends to lovers. Can never get enough of those.
I’m a big fan of reading about characters in a relationship growing as people together, discovering new sides to themselves, figuring out how to live or raise kids together, etc.
I like soulmate AUs a LOT so long as the characters still get some chance to develop feelings organically, whether or not they are already aware of their soulmate status. Stuff where they find out before they are in love and kind of fight it at first, but end up getting to know and falling for the person anyway — love it, can’t get enough.
Big into people falling in love with someone they'd never expect.
I really love outside character perspectives/reactions on a particularly unexpected relationship.
If you have characters from different cultures, countries, worlds, planets, etc. I really really love stuff that explores cultural differences in relationship norms (regardless of the nature of the specific relationship, I love this between friends, colleagues, etc. too as well as lovers) and where characters share their cultures with each other.
Some things I really like for smut fic: Oral sex, especially cunnilingus or rimming. Strap-ons. Motorboating, nipple play (no clamps though), boobs/chest focus. Marking, including/especially scent-marking but also stuff like leaving scars. Femdom in F/M.
Creative and weird uses of non-human biology in sex in sci-fi and fantasy scenarios.

GENERAL DNWs, no exceptions:

ABO/Omegaverse of any kind| Ace/aro/demisexual/demiromantic headcanons | Animal death/abuse/harm | Autistic or neurodivergent headcanons as main focus of the story | Bathroom kinks | Breathplay or other potentially life-threatening kink | Child sexual abuse, including in backstories (unless it is canonical. Note that a character having been abused as a child in some other way does not mean that "child sexual abuse" is canonical) | Daddy kink | Detailed violence/torture/gore | Explicit physical abuse | Extreme underage (i.e. younger than the age when teens typically start having consensual sex IRL) | Feederism or other weight-fetishization | Focus on feminine grooming rituals (such as doing each others' hair/makeup) in F/F | Genital mutilation (such as sounding) | Issuefic. Feel free to give your characters strong opinions and explore fraught issues, but the key word there is explore; I don't want to feel like I'm being lectured to or taught a lesson | Jewish or Muslim characters with uncircumcised penises | Loss of intelligence/Flowers for Algernon plots | Making canonically LGBTQ+ characters cis/straight | Men domming women | Mpreg-specific: butt babies, surprise uteruses, or other stuff that's implausible to whatever fictional universe you're in | Negative/stigmatizing discussion of abortion | Pre-relationship/UST that never resolves in romance/ship fic | Pregnancy in a female character (unless in the background) | Rape/non-con | Sexual orientation headcanons that "contradict" their romantic and sexual relationships or "if it's you, it's okay" | “Soulmate AUs” where the main couple are not actually soulmates | Using feminizing terms for male characters | Women giving up their ambitions/careers/dreams for a relationship treated as romantic/desirable/ideal, especially in F/M

GENERAL DNWs, with specific exceptions for specific fandoms/characters:

Amnesia/memory loss (okay with this for Utena, as long as the memories come back by the end) | AUs that change the setting or central relationship significantly* (exception: a less-bigoted version of the canon is fine for historical fiction or historically-inspired fantasy like FE3H, but not modern AUs or otherwise moving them into a fundamentally different setting/time period. except with Faisal/Lawrence I'm fine with modern AUs!) | Lifestyle BDSM (okay with and in fact big into this with Faisal/Lawrence, so long as Faisal is the dom) | PIV in smut (this is not really my personal preference ever, but I'm fine with it in requested het ships unless otherwise noted, and taking my other smut preferences into account) | Trans/non-binary headcanons for focus characters (specifically headcanons, does not apply to canonically trans/non-binary characters) (exception: fine with it in any fandoms where it isn't prohibited in the signup, provided it isn't used to make same-gender combos F/M or to add in more PIV)

*Setting changes means like significant shifts in place/time or worldbuilding, like a sci-fi AU for a realistic fiction work, or moving a historical or futuristic work to the present day. It does not mean plot-divergence, or smaller worldbuilding changes (e.g. a soulmate AU) in an otherwise similar universe. You can use your best judgment on where to draw the line, obviously. "Central relationship" changes are stuff like changing people's ages, genders/sexes, species, etc. or "reversing" in-canon character dynamics (like giving characters each other's jobs or social roles).

Usually DNW, with broader exceptions for certain fandoms or ships, please look at the specific fandom:

Abusive relationships between requested characters/pairings/that are non-canonical | Big power differentials between members of the main couple in ship fic | Cheating on main couple in ship fic | Major Character Death | Whump/dark fic (as stated in some of the fandom sections, I'm never really a fan of full-on "Hurt No Comfort," but I'm cool with and even prefer darker themes for some fandoms)

Additional caveats:

Consent: Characters do not have to give explicit verbal consent to be considered "consenting." Characters being drunk/high/stoned is fine as long as they're both clearly into it, and as long as they're not clearly way past the point where they could say no IRL (just use your best judgment here, I'm just really tired of fics where one beer is treated like a "dubcon" situation).

Dubcon: I do not want any outright non-con/rape, but I am fine with some degree of dubcon as long as it's a situation where the person would be interested in that other person if they were clear-headed (or whatever the case may be), where it's more of a catalyst to acting on real feelings, and also where whomever is not "dubconned" isn't intentionally taking advantage of the other party. I prefer mutual dubcon, and I especially enjoy the classic tropes like "sex pollen," pon-farr/fuck-or-die stuff with sci-fi and fantasy races, etc.

Historical accuracy: I'm someone who has a strong interest in history, including in the periods for historical fiction works here. I don't expect exacting historical accuracy, but please don't get basic and broad things wrong: some examples would be which countries existed, having people use overly modern slang, etc. My one caveat is anything involving music, as that is my own area of academic expertise. If you're going to incorporate something involving music history or music trivia please make sure you really and truly know it (as in, are not just relying on something you saw online or you remember your high school band teacher telling you) because it will truly take me out of the fic if people get things wrong there! Characters talking about music, playing it, going to concerts, etc. is fine, but if they are going to make a fact claim about it, fact-check it if it's intended to be accurate (obviously, if you intend the character to be wrong or unsure, that's fine). (For the purposes of this exchange, this section applies most to A Dangerous Man: Lawrence After Arabia and The Gilded Age. FE3H is set in its own medieval fantasy world that I don’t expect to be overly similar to the historical Middle Ages any more than the original game is, so go to town.)


Fandom-Specific Preferences:


So I requested most of these for previous exchanges, and my preferences are pretty similar this time around! Here are the letters for those. Just keep in mind the marriage nature of this particular exchange when looking at these ideas/prompts:
  • Star Trek DS9: Star Trek Holidays 2023
  • Fire Emblem: Three Houses: Purim Gifts 2024 for F/F ships, Just Married 2023 for all ships
  • Revolutionary Girl Utena: Yuletide 2023
  • A Dangerous Man: Lawrence After Arabia: Yuletide 2023
  • The Gilded Age: This is my first time requesting this fandom! Go based on what my sign-up says, and know that my preferences are fairly similar to other period/historical fandoms other than that I'm not really into the AUs here. I want it set in the time period and setting of the show, and preferably fairly close to "canon." Caveat is that as of this writing, I don't yet know what season 3 has in store, so "close to canon" in the sense of "where the show is at at the end of season 2." But feel free to draw on the events of season 3 if you want! I'm sure I'll still love it so long as it still adheres to my DNWs from the sign-up. (And don't worry about spoilers: I'm a spoilerphile, and I'll also be watching this season week by week as it airs in the U.S.)
 
Saturday, June 21st, 2025 09:56 pm

 

My general preferences are here.

 

DNW: unrequested mundane AU | female characters in fridges | non-con | violent dub-con | graphic violence | gore | graphic sexual violence | cruelty/death to animals | cruelty/death to children | requested character death | unrelieved grimdark | bigotry by the good guys | first or second POV | reader fic | ABO | soulbonds | wildly OOC in a non-cracky way

SMUT DNW: creampies | the word “cunt” | anal | hate each other out of bed | underage | incest

MAYBE: no-harm dubcon (sex pollen or “fertility artifact”) | period typical attitudes | infidelity | power dynamic

Shower the treats like rice!

 

I love weddings.  You cannot be too fluffy or have too many details, or get into too-ridiculous or too-complicated situations.  You want to go way over the top, I am your girl.

 

These are a few of my very favorite tags:

Wedding Reception - Unmarried Couple Fantasize About Their Future While At Friend's Wedding  - YES  I love it!  The whole, that could be us factor!  Also here for frank discussions of we are not having X at our wedding sort of stuff

Wedding Reception - Catching the Bouquet – Yes it’s old-fashioned and silly and I love it.  I especially love conspiracies to make sure someone specific gets it.

Wedding Ceremony - The Wedding Day Disaster You Laugh About in the Future  - So my first husband had to bribe a friend to overnight the ring because he left it on the kitchen counter (LDR).  It seemed huge at the time.  I’m open to ideas as long as they can still get married and aren’t too unhappy!

Proposal - While Watching Happy Friends Get Married – YES, although here maybe looking for that moment of I should ask, because it’s rude to propose at someone else’s wedding.  Or a private proposal that doesn’t detract.

Wedding - Something Old New Borrowed and Blue – I love this.  I could read a thousand variations on it, because what I love is seeing what’s important to the characters.

Wedding - That One Perfect Photograph at Your Wedding – That one moment you remember forever.

Anniversary - 1st Year – I love this opportunity to look forward and look back and be in love!

Wedding - Family Heirlooms Passed Down For Wedding – This can be tied to old/borrowed/new/blue but I love that little connection to the past or a loved one you miss.

Dimension Travel - Getting Together After Meeting The AU Married Couple Version of Themselves – I love the meeting AND the realization and the getting together.

Wedding Reception - Best Man and Maid of Honor Get Together – It’s a classic, especially if the bride and groom are trying to throw them together.

Bachelor(ette) Party – Hijinks & Shenanigans – Also a classic, as long as the hijinks do not involve infidelity. 

 

Let The Bells Ring! )

 

Saturday, June 21st, 2025 12:02 am
 Does anyone know of a good tutorial for Google Spreadsheet? I need to learn how to work it if I am going to do my own comm and I am as I almost have the rest of it all set up!
Friday, June 20th, 2025 06:35 pm

A fossil skeleston of what appears to be a bipedal dinosaur with a long tail, longish neck and sharp teeth.
Dilophosaurus. Image stolen from Great Dinosaur Discoveries by Darren Naish, though wikipedia is using a very similiar image under a Creative Commons licence.